Parent Resources
Communication
Communication
Communication is a way for everyone to stay connected. Regular notes, family updates and reminders from home help students still feel a part of home life even though they are living on campus. We recommend discussing how you will communicate in advance. Will they check their mail regularly if you write letters? What is the best time for a weekly phone call? For example, if your student has a lot of classes on Tuesdays and Thursdays, perhaps a weekly Wednesday afternoon phone call would be a good time for both of you.
A college student’s schedule can be very different than when he or she lived at home. It is not uncommon for students to be away from their residence hall rooms for long periods of time in the afternoon and evening; in fact, it is encouraged! Late-night programs in the hall, study groups and class project team meetings usually take place between the hours of 7 and 11 p.m. or later. Many campus organizations hold evening meetings at 9 p.m. or later so that all students who want to participate will be done with class.
Care packages also help to bridge the gap. Celebrating birthdays, anniversaries and regular family events through cards, videos and memorabilia mean a lot to students. Remember that along with all the new “firsts” in your student’s life, homesickness and new stressors may emerge. Reminders from home are subtle means of support that help your student manage stress levels and issues that he or she may face.
The Residence Halls Association offers a cake and cookie program as a way to help parents support their students. Click here for more details.
